Ways To Make Your Average Sex Awesome
How would you rate your sexual life? So-so? Good? Maybe perfect? Whatever answer you give, there is always a place for perfection! Explore 9 sure-bet ways to upgrade your lovemaking from average to great, and from great to mind-blowing.
Eat Dessert First
Oral sex is not foreplay - it's a sweet treat full-blown orgasm you can get any time of day. But putting the licking and sucking on the warm-up is a great idea if you want to make sure everyone gets their fair share of orgasms in the session. Get a taste of this kissable lip balm with its cinnamon tingle and feel as your lips swell with the power to make your boo scream.
Workout Your Os
Yeah-yeah, it's important to train your Kegels, okay? It's good for your health and it will tighten up your muscles, enabling them to withstand some real erotic tension. That's where you get those extra intensity orgasms. Guggling the balls for girls can be a fun treat and a part of a simple yoga workout with a side of moans.
For guys, Kegel training means P-spot stimulation. Smart massager can get far more than better erections out of - imagine dry orgasms that wash over you again and again while you stay hard. Cool, huh?
Help It Slide
There is no such thing as too much lube. Even when it's dripping down your legs - especially then - the sensations are guaranteed to be toe-curling. The notion that only those with little to none natural lubrication need help to get sleazy it absurd - we want no friction, only deep sliding in. Lube makes everything smooth, and every touch feels like bliss. So it's better if you keep your bottle at hand at all times.
Screw Boundaries
How boring are the walls of your own bedroom? Well, only as boring as you make them feel but it's still really fun to take your games out on the town sometimes. Bringing a discreet and remote-controlled toy on a hot date will make you feel oh so naughty, hiding in dark corners and trying to hold a straight face. The thrill of adventure will certainly add up some volume to your orgasms.
Go Fancy-lacy
Knowing that somewhere, deep under those close, you have mesh, a lace, a little bow tie makes you bite your lip, doesn't it? Even the idea of wearing sexy lingerie gets you turned out because it calls out the sensuality you are used to tucking away every day. So let out the thrills with the frills, and let your boo unwrap you like a sexy gift you are. Preferably using teeth.
Keep It Hard
When a boner performs a vanishing act - brrr. When he shoots his Ahhs two minutes after it begins - uuugh. Leaving a lady without a climax is a classic sign of sex being far from great.
But the rings - to rule them all - the rings do save the day. A tight loop around the penis holds his hard-on nice and strong for as long as you like, humping for hours. A really hungry attachment on the ring works while he humps - working on her clit until she explodes again and again. And that's how you close the orgasm gap.
2 to 3 orgasms on average - that's how many times a woman can come when sex is really great.
on average - that's how many times a woman can come when sex is really great.
Massage It Real Good
Rub the stress away or experience some higly-charge stimulation? If you know your massage moves, you can do both. Relaxing the muscles will make them way more receptive of stimulation - a big move toward a great orgasm.
Massage wands can definitely do that, brushing against your thighs and your neck and your inner knee, tickling and arousing gently, making the blood rush around the body. But turn that intensity up and press it against what matters - whether you're playing as a couple or alone, it will be the fastest and WOW-est climax you've ever had.
Loot For Booty
Slipping a finger up your lover's bum during hanky panky is always a good idea (provided you asked first, of course), but anal play as it is is a fine canal - no pun intended - for better orgasms. First of all, if you're staying plugged during penetration, it stirs the penis right to the G-spot, delivering a delicious tight feel for both.
Second, you can train for larger things - aka penis - to slip in da booty, and that bum is decorated with orgasm-inducing nerve-endings like a Christmas tree. Finally - the more types of spur you can handle, the more effervescent your orgasm will be.
Bring The Thrill Back
You know what makes for boring sex in the first place? The absence of a thrill, a spark. You just know what's coming, and you're not entertained. But take that predictability away - and everything shines anew.
One simple blindfold will keep unaware of any teasing or ticking that's about to come, resulting in your whole body staying super alert, aroused. And throw in a couple of restraints in there and the raw, unexplored erotic tension will fill you up. You are exposed, your lover has the control, and the thrill is back on track.
