After recently discovering my G-spot and the ability to squirt, I decided to invest in some higher quality toys specifically designed for G-spotting. The Pure Wand seemed to be one of the most highly recommended toys for this purpose so I took the plunge and ordered mine. It's actually marketed for p-spot stimulation, but most everyone has found that it works well for both men and women.

Measuring at about eight inches long, with a strong curve and smooth weighted balls on either end the Pure Wand hones in on the G-spot and p-spot with the precision of advanced military technology. The ball on the smaller end measures about an inch in diameter and the larger ball measures about one and a half inches in diameter. Either end is suited for p-spotting and G-spotting, it's all about whatever your preference is. The larger end feels more weighted and creates a fuller feeling with broad stimulation. The smaller end provides a more precise, intense pressure.

It is crafted from stainless steel which is hypoallergenic, easy to sterilize and retains temperature well. You can use any of your favorite lubes and not worry about damaging it. Just clean with anti-bacterial toy cleaner and water. If your intend to share this toy (between holes or multiple people) just be sure to boil it or wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution.

If you're interested in temperature play this is an excellent choice. When we received it in the mail and took it out of the box it was frigid. It took a long time for it to warm up on it's own. I prefer my toys a little warmer so I enjoyed the way it heated up with my body temperature, in the shower or if we left it in a sink full of warm water. Another way we warmed it up was to place it in front of a space heater, but you do need to be cautious because the metal heats up or cools off very quickly and it can become a dangerous temperature if you aren't paying attention. What feels like a comfortable temperature to your hand may burn the delicate skin inside your vagina or inside your rectum. Always test the temperature on a sensitive part of your body before you use it internally.

Because of the weight and shape of this toy, it can be a little awkward to use. It doesn't come with any instructions or suggestions on ways to use it. There is quite a learning curve in figuring out what will work for your body. Some people enjoy rocking the toy, others like to thrust it (carefully now, metal can cause bruising), and some people find it pleasurable to grind their hips against it. We're still figuring out what works for us.

You will want to store the Pure Wand in it's gorgeous box. Not because you have to worry about damaging it or anything, but because this is it's home. It comes in a black box lined with pink satin and the wand sits neatly inside of a hole that was carved out for it. It's suitable for gifting as well.

Though my husband and I haven't figured out how to orgasm using the Pure Wand yet, we're confident that with more practice it will come(ha!) to us. In the mean time we've found another use for it that is actually nearly as pleasurable as climaxing as far as I'm concerned. I love getting back rubs with it. Hell, I love getting full body massages with it. With the way the metal holds temperature (hot and cold) it feels amazing. The weight also helps release any knots I have from working out or stress. The metal glides across the skin easily so you don't have to use as much massage oil, which saves the sheets from staining and doesn't make me feel like I need a shower after my massage.

If it doesn't work out for us as a sex toy in the long run, it does at least work for that. My husband has also recommended I use it to clobber burglars should he go out of town on a business trip. It's small enough to tuck under the pillow and heavy enough to knock them out so that I can tie them up with some the restraints we have while I wait for the police to arrive. Imagine the headlines in the local papers. "Resident Defends Her Family With Sex Toys!" Then I could start up my own business where I sell BDSM toys and teach how to use them in self defense. I figure this is going to turn out to be a very worthy investment for me.

So, I knew this thing was really stimulating my g-spot and made me feel like I needed to squirt, but I wasn't squirting so I thought it wasn't working. I recently purchased Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to the G-Spot and learned that it's more difficult to squirt with something inserted because you're pretty much covering the hole. My stomach would just start cramping because I couldn't squirt. Now that I know better, I just remove it and push to relieve that pressure and get ready for round 2!

There was definitely a learning curve with it. Sometimes a gentle rocking is enjoyable and sometimes it feels great to do short, quick thrusts with it. Certainly worth the investment.